Even when you are the rock of the relationship, the one holding everything together, it is okay not to be okay. 
We’ve had a few tough times recently & everything all became a bit too much for me to handle, I didn’t know if I was coming or going most days, but I felt like I had no right to not be okay but it wasn’t really me going through the tough times, just having to watch someone else go through them.
But I’ve learnt the hard way, as per usual… that it is okay to not be okay, even when you are the one holding everything together, trying to be the strong one & power through.
Everyone has a breaking point, even the most strong confident people in the world, everyone needs some time out sometime & that is completely natural. 
It’s not natural to be okay with everything all of the time, that just isn’t human nature & we are only human so we can only do what human nature intends.

The thing you need to remember is the universe has got your back, even though it doesn’t seem like there is an end in sight it is coming, it is on it’s way, you just need to listen quietly & let the universe show you how to get there.
Act on your instincts because they are your instincts for a reason.
This morning I posted a message in a Mindset programme I am part of, explaining the situation & how I just felt like my mindset was shattered & I was emotionally shattered, by doing this I ended up speaking to someone that had been through something similar & managed to pick up some amazing tips to help in the future, not just to help me but to help my family.
But if I hadn’t of acted on my instincts then I would never of got chatting to that wonderful lady & I wouldn’t of learnt the things I have today which could quite possible change our future & help us finally get to the end of this rocky road.
Remember that no one’s life is perfect, people will only show you what they want to show you, no one knows what goes on behind closed doors. 

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  1. Love this, it’s definitely ok not to be ok.

  2. Aw wow this felt like I was reading my own life for a minute then remembered it was you ??. Your write it is ok to not be ok. An that there is a light @ the end an you my friend have helped me get there over this horrible situation I’ve been in . ?????

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